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    Tactic of the Week   March 2, 2005


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Tactic #10 - YIKES!  You've Got to Be Kidding

Summary:  Expressing disbelief to encourage a counterpart to make a better offer.


Successful negotiators are good at acting surprised. They communicate the YIKES! You’ve Got to Be Kidding! message with a flinch, a sour face, or an expression of disbelief anytime a counterpart mentions the price or conditions of a product or service. We used to think this tactic was rather silly until we realized how effective it was when someone used it on us! Failing to act surprised when price or conditions are mentioned could encourage your counterpart to take advantage of you.

Example
A salesperson says, “The price for the brochures will be three thousand dollars for a thousand copies.” The client responds, “You’ve got to be kidding me! Why so much?”

Counter
The salesperson could respond to the client’s disbelief with “Of course, that price includes copywriting, photography, typesetting, printing, varnish, and binding.”

When someone uses the YIKES! tactic on you, you have to defend your product or service on its own merit. Many people flinch because they lack knowledge of a product, service, or price. So do not give concessions until you have a solid understanding of why the person flinched. Inexperienced negotiators tend to give up too much too soon.


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