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    Tactic and Challenge of the Week July 7, 2004


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Tactic #75 - The Choice is Yours

Summary:  Giving a counterpart several acceptable alternatives to choose from.


You can use this tactic when you have several alternatives that are acceptable to you. Salespeople are trained to use this approach to gain a buyer’s commitment.

Example

A car buyer tells the salesman, “I am willing to buy your new Honda Accord for $23,000 at 9 percent interest. However, if you want me to pay 11 percent, you will have to throw in the paint sealant, upgraded stereo, and floor mats. Either way. The Choice Is Yours.”

Counter

The salesman has lots of options here, including: (1) saying “no” to both deals and starting over; (2) making a counteroffer to one deal or the other; (3) using Apparent Withdrawal; (4) employing These Boots Are Made for Walking; or (5) making a Trade-off Concession.


This tactic is one of 101 strategies and tactics featured in The Only Negotiating Guide You'll Ever Need, by Peter Stark and Jane Flaherty.


Ask the Negotiator

Dear Peter,

I work for a national retailer that buys products from internationally recognized manufacturers. One of the manufacturers I buy from recently changed sales representatives. The new rep is a rude, condescending jerk. Of course, the easiest thing to do would be to tell him to get lost and not buy any more of this manufacturer’s products. But the challenge is that we need these products to complete our retail selection. What do you suggest?

Sincerely,

Ed

Dear Ed,

This question is a challenging one. Why? Because you have eliminated the one choice we would all like to make--just buy from another manufacturer. Life is really too short to work with jerks!

Are you sure that you really need this manufacturer? In retail, when you have a difficult customer, you can almost always find an outstanding competitor who is a pleasure to deal with. Would you be willing to take the risk of withholding an order the next time this sales rep is a jerk? If you are willing to utilize coercive power, you may create a situation where he is willing to be more polite and respectful.

If you have a lot of confidence, there are a couple of other head-on strategies you might try. First find out if your boss would be willing to support you if you complain to either the sales rep or the sales rep’s boss about the lack of respect you feel you are getting from this individual. Negotiate with your boss first to preserve your job security.

Once you have gotten your boss’s approval, you can go directly to the sales rep. If you do not see increased respect after your talk, go over his head and speak to his boss. When a person is this big of a jerk, others at his own company probably know that he is a problem.

Remember, the side that is least committed to a relationship holds the most power. You may think you need this manufacturer more than he needs you, but has it occurred to you that sales to your company are probably in the manufacturer’s projections for the upcoming year? You have more power than you think.

Best regards,
Peter
 


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